FRIENDSHIP

CHOOSING THE RIGHT FRIENDS

choosing Friends .. choosing the right friends is very important. friends are an integral part of a persons life. they are often a deciding factor in the direction in which ones life goes.the kind of friends you have defines you.. this is exactly what i have been hearing since .. umm i started meeting people my age, 

well i don't know whether i am right or wrong . but i believe that more than the fact that your friend circle defines you, it is you who define your friend circle. a person would end up having friends who share the same mindset as he does. one might get involved or befriend people who do not share the same thought as he does or believes in stuffs that he disapproves of.. but that would last only for a short duration of time.as problems would start arising. well then some of you might be wondering then what do i have to say about the innumerable examples of people getting in ' bad ' company ( firstly how do you define a company as bad .. its relative.. for terrorists we are bad and for us they are.. but yeah . if you are talking in the moral sense then yeah bad company) i guess everybody wants to try out the stuffs that appear 'cool' and that is when you start getting involved in the group of people you do not or did not approve of before. i believe that people are never born bad it is the situations and the surroundings they have to deal with daily that end up making them bad. similarly, even people who get involved with the kind of people who are 'bad' they adjust to the surroundings and they get 'destroyed' in their company.

cmon, now i am contradicting my own words .. well the will and the belief in your conscience is the key here.. if you believe what you are doing is not right that is you have conscience inside you , ( which by the way everybody does have) and the will to do what is right.then it is you who decides your friend circle,..in fact if you have these two .. you don't need to'choose' them , it is all automatic in this autonomous 21st century.

when i started writing this post, i had something else in mind and i ended up writing something else.. funny .. isn't it. the multiple directions in which brain can work

choosing friends..it is often said .. one must choose ones friends wisely.. but you don't choose them. with time ..before you realise they have become your friends. a person never goes to some place thinking that this is the kind of friend i have to make..( or does anybody?) it is time that strengthens the bonds of friendship and at the same time weakens the clutches of rivalry.. it is time that chooses the friends for you.. the only thing you can do is just be yourself and not pretend to be someone else. sometimes it might happen that you want to become part of a group and you do not. you may feel sad about it. but how many of us really ponder over why we weren't able to be a part of that group. maybe because we didn't fit into that group or maybe that group wasn't ready to accept you.. but does it matters?. there are another 7 billion people you can befriend.( or aren't there)..and eventually you will end up being among people whose company you enjoy and rarely does it happen that you decide .. mostly its by chance that you meet that person and he or she becomes a part of you life and you just enjoy their company throughout your life..