Its been a long time i guess since i talked about something like love. Well its been quite some time since she came and told me her small yet interesting story.
Sneha was an amazing person who hails from the same city as i do. Well she had this aura around her. the poise she carried. She hated working but she was god-hearted. Kind funny and yeah not to forget she loved to make fun of others. and trust me it would be a nightmare if she is insulting you cause she happens to be quite sarcastic. Having studied in an all girls schools from the beginning of her childhood, college happened to be her first real involvement in an ecosystem that was not gender specific. So she did fell in love with this guy, Yash.
Yash, i dont know much about him . Actually i don't happen to anything about him. Having said that there is one thing though, he belongs to that particular section of people who are just not satisfied with what they have. They want to have more. Thy just don't know the value of the thing or in this case person that they happen to have. Well, he is not the bad kind of a person and definitely not the devil that everyone is trying to make out of him. He is just a normal guy who just wanted to get in a relationship and when sneha was interested he made full use of the opportunity.
He just never valued her. She was like a fixed deposit. the kind of deposit that just remains there while you explore other opportunities. Well he just forgot that the another girl he was considering an opportunity happened to be a good friend of the fixed deposit.
I know that what he did was wrong. Maybe he deserves punishment for it. What he did was definitely not what he should have ideally done.
Sneha came to know and she broke up with him. Well it took that dumb wit a week to apologise to her.
People got something interesting and they all wanted to be a part of it. They just happened to forget that what do these two people have to go through, one who is being projected as a cheap and a degraded kind of a person who is just not meant for MNIT and the other who is being pitied upon and is thought of an innocent girl who someone used for his personal gains. People just forget that it is actually those two people who have to suffer everything and while for others it is just a story and a passtime of which they will get bored eventually and they will get something new to keep the talks over coffee going. It is the life of these people that will change drastically and will never be the same again. It is this girl who would find it hard to trust anybody ever again.
But what actually saddens me is not what people do, but what we do because of the people. We let our decisions be affected by what people think and say and what might think and say. Can't for once we just realise that it is our life and we have the bigger say in it and nobody else.
I dont know whether she should forgive Yash or not. But i do know that whatever decision she takes, at the end of the day she should be able to say that i am responsible for the consequences of my decision because i took them.
What i think she should do, she should take a decision as soon as possible. Becasue the more she delays the decision that whether she should forgive him and give him another chance or whether she should forget him and move on in life, the more will be the pain and confusion and dissatisfaction with the decision when taking the decision.
All I hope is that she leads a wonderful life and enjoy her life to the fullest. :)
Sneha was an amazing person who hails from the same city as i do. Well she had this aura around her. the poise she carried. She hated working but she was god-hearted. Kind funny and yeah not to forget she loved to make fun of others. and trust me it would be a nightmare if she is insulting you cause she happens to be quite sarcastic. Having studied in an all girls schools from the beginning of her childhood, college happened to be her first real involvement in an ecosystem that was not gender specific. So she did fell in love with this guy, Yash.
Yash, i dont know much about him . Actually i don't happen to anything about him. Having said that there is one thing though, he belongs to that particular section of people who are just not satisfied with what they have. They want to have more. Thy just don't know the value of the thing or in this case person that they happen to have. Well, he is not the bad kind of a person and definitely not the devil that everyone is trying to make out of him. He is just a normal guy who just wanted to get in a relationship and when sneha was interested he made full use of the opportunity.
He just never valued her. She was like a fixed deposit. the kind of deposit that just remains there while you explore other opportunities. Well he just forgot that the another girl he was considering an opportunity happened to be a good friend of the fixed deposit.
I know that what he did was wrong. Maybe he deserves punishment for it. What he did was definitely not what he should have ideally done.
Sneha came to know and she broke up with him. Well it took that dumb wit a week to apologise to her.
People got something interesting and they all wanted to be a part of it. They just happened to forget that what do these two people have to go through, one who is being projected as a cheap and a degraded kind of a person who is just not meant for MNIT and the other who is being pitied upon and is thought of an innocent girl who someone used for his personal gains. People just forget that it is actually those two people who have to suffer everything and while for others it is just a story and a passtime of which they will get bored eventually and they will get something new to keep the talks over coffee going. It is the life of these people that will change drastically and will never be the same again. It is this girl who would find it hard to trust anybody ever again.
But what actually saddens me is not what people do, but what we do because of the people. We let our decisions be affected by what people think and say and what might think and say. Can't for once we just realise that it is our life and we have the bigger say in it and nobody else.
I dont know whether she should forgive Yash or not. But i do know that whatever decision she takes, at the end of the day she should be able to say that i am responsible for the consequences of my decision because i took them.
What i think she should do, she should take a decision as soon as possible. Becasue the more she delays the decision that whether she should forgive him and give him another chance or whether she should forget him and move on in life, the more will be the pain and confusion and dissatisfaction with the decision when taking the decision.
All I hope is that she leads a wonderful life and enjoy her life to the fullest. :)
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